community guidelines

dating apps have a trust problem. most platforms bury rules in legal boilerplate, act inconsistently, and treat moderation as damage control rather than community care. users — particularly women, queer people, and neurodivergent people — are left feeling unsafe, unheard, and unsupported. we're doing this differently.

likelike exists to help people connect authentically in spaces that feel genuinely safe. these guidelines aren't a list of things we'll punish you for. they're a shared agreement about the kind of community we're building together.

tier 1 — review and support

mild or ambiguous behaviour that may be unintentional. a member of the team reviews it personally. we look at context. we may reach out to both parties. we don't assume the worst.

tier 2 — immediate action and warning

clear violations: sexual comments without consent, persistent unwanted contact, discriminatory language, sharing personal info. the message is hidden immediately and the sender gets a formal warning written like a message from a person, not a legal notice.

tier 3 — escalation

serious violations or second offences: threats, explicit content, intimate images without consent, targeted harassment. every case is reviewed personally before any ban is issued. we don't automate bans.

• we'll never sell your data. ever.
• we'll never use moderation as a commercial tool.
• we'll never issue automated bans without human review.
• we'll never ignore context.
• we'll never gaslight you. if we don't act, we'll tell you why.

every message in a mixer has a report option. profile reports are available from any profile. or email us at natalie@likelike.app. tell us what happened in your own words. reports are confidential.

likelike is explicitly welcoming to neurodivergent people. social norms aren't equally intuitive for everyone, and we build that into how we moderate. if a misunderstanding arises from a difference in communication style rather than intent to harm, we treat it as such. we ask the broader community to do the same.